Fidelity, Loyalty and Allegiance: Understanding their Unconscious Issues

Hello everyone!

I invite you to explore a deep and universal subject: fidelity, loyalty and allegiance.

These notions, rooted in our unconscious memories and our past lives, often influence our choices, our relationships and our behavior without us being fully aware of it.

As a karma reader, I work on healing the unconscious wounds we carry from our past lives. These wounds recur in this life and manifest in our actions and choices, unbeknownst to our life plan.

Let’s talk about some unconscious patterns we perpetuate:

• Fidelity : An act of love.

• Loyalty : A moral contract.

• Allegiance : An act of faith.

  
  

Understanding their differences and their unconscious impacts:

Loyalty:

It is based on a true act of love, both towards oneself and towards others. However, before one can be faithful to others, it is essential to be faithful to oneself: to one's values, ideas and aspirations.

Loyalty:

It is a moral commitment, often linked to social contracts such as marriage or employment. It does not necessarily imply a lifelong commitment and can coexist with alternative choices.

For example, being loyal to a company does not prevent you from looking for another job, just as being married does not prevent you from being interested in another person.

Allegiance:

Historically linked to oaths to a leader or an institution, allegiance remains today in our unconscious patterns, particularly towards the company, the family of certain communities and even our Country.

It can result in irrational difficulties in leaving a job, an institution (civil service, country, etc.), or even a family or friends.

These Unconscious Contracts and their Karmic Roots

In our karmic memories, these notions are often linked to past contracts or vows.

For example :

• Karmic marriages :

  Alliances made in past lives can carry over into this life, creating patterns of loyalty or faithfulness to a person and sometimes not even "returning to this life."

  Example: you are looking for an "ex-husband", an "ex-wife..." or on the contrary you have an irrational fear of commitment.

  
  

• Family and/or professional allegiances:

  Working in the same company as their parents and/or feeling “obliged” to take over the family business.

  Being attracted to an institutional profession (care, army, education) can result from old vows of allegiance.

  
  

  These patterns can create dilemmas when different karmic commitments intersect, such as being loyal to one family but loyal to a new relationship.

  
  

The Priority: Recognizing and Respecting Yourself

The common point between fidelity, loyalty and allegiance is that they are often interpreted by our conscious as being turned towards the other.

Yet the first commitment we should honor is to ourselves:

• Self-truth : Making choices aligned with our deepest aspirations.

• Loyalty to your values : Respect yourself by remaining faithful to your truth and authenticity.

• Allegiance to one’s destiny : Following one’s vocation with faith and courage.

  
  

Freeing yourself from these unconscious patterns allows you to escape the guilt, sacrifice and "I have no choice" associated with the injunctions they generate. This requires a process of awareness and liberation, often in several stages.

If you feel blockages in your life related to these patterns, I suggest that we work together. My goal is to accompany you towards a better understanding of yourself and your unconscious commitments to live a more aligned and fulfilled life.

See you soon,

Angelic